tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18249261.post8873656608588499058..comments2023-09-05T08:21:34.405-04:00Comments on Dharma's Universe: Bleak HouseDharmahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15287211332036241240noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18249261.post-30162341742161217022007-03-13T18:21:00.000-04:002007-03-13T18:21:00.000-04:00Everyone is an asshole sometimes - don't be so fuc...Everyone is an asshole sometimes - don't be so fucking hard on yourself! Now knock it off and go kiss your wife.Bitter Bettyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18398268869503268237noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18249261.post-46284197402579934752007-03-11T23:39:00.000-04:002007-03-11T23:39:00.000-04:00Also, in case you do not read it on my site, thank...Also, in case you do not read it on my site, thanks for the shot of reality. I needed it as I get very superstitous these days.....<BR/>I adore you as well, chica!Jbeekyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14623837533488339865noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18249261.post-87125057587089008742007-03-11T16:51:00.000-04:002007-03-11T16:51:00.000-04:00I like to blame daylight savings. Or Venus in ret...I like to blame daylight savings. Or Venus in retrograde. Or terrorism. I am glad that you have this blog to get it out and that we have your blog to read about it. Hope you 23 hour day is better.Jbeekyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14623837533488339865noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18249261.post-59478566690652530682007-03-11T15:03:00.000-04:002007-03-11T15:03:00.000-04:00sorry you're having a tough time. maybe it's in th...sorry you're having a tough time. maybe it's in the air, not really slick my way either. anyway, hope you're feeling better today, and if not, you go to an ice rink. ;-)heatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14001112563860771497noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18249261.post-65575064785786962602007-03-11T14:55:00.000-04:002007-03-11T14:55:00.000-04:00what she said. Dont know what brought me here tod...what she said. <BR/><BR/>Dont know what brought me here today; I had added your site to my disorganized and long list of bookmarks awhile back and hadnt been here since. Just wanted to acknowledge you and your self-awareness, and your courage sharing that here. I also wanted to somehow comfort you and reinforce that this would pass. <BR/><BR/>I do think true self-comfort is underrated. We mere mortals are out there so much, giving, being, doing....mer need replenishment. I hope you gift yourself with some comfort today. Thanks for being and congratulations on your 300th post, girl. <BR/><BR/>And I forwarded the Seventh Generation link...thanks for making me aware of that too.<BR/><BR/>Hugs and warmth, SharonUnknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05816830183014481726noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18249261.post-88877174104126006892007-03-11T10:27:00.000-04:002007-03-11T10:27:00.000-04:00Dharma, the best thing about this post is the self...Dharma, the best thing about this post is the self awareness. I have lived with people who do the same thing that you did today who never realize that is what is happening. <BR/><BR/>Everything is outside them -happening to them.<BR/><BR/>As a result they never had the opportunity to make a change - or even apologize.<BR/><BR/>D and I have have some agreements between us - we are both aware of most of our own character defects - so in rational moments we talk about them. And then we are kind with each other in those irrational times.<BR/><BR/>We have each learned the true worth of not taking the other's bad mood personally. And on the other hand - we have learned to recognise when we are in our own bad mood - and what steps to take to avoid inflicting it on each other.<BR/><BR/>When I am in a funk (lie you described) when nothing is right or fun - I know that I need to be left alone and now - so does everyone else. D still occasionally tries to find something that will please me - cause she's made that way - but will walk away when I let her know that it's just one of those days.<BR/><BR/>At times I have to point out that she is having a mood - for her it means going and taking a nap - for as long as possible. When she wakes up - it's uaually all better. <BR/><BR/>I guess what I am trying to say is that you are right - this will pass. <BR/><BR/>Is there any thing that is tried and true for you - like the library or zoo or the merry go round at the park? Someplace to go by yourself to break the funk?Barbarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15867250935860624240noreply@blogger.com